Reading Time - 5 Minutes (PS Thanks Owen Fitzpatrick)
The road to success is not a linear one and it is not a
short one. Save from winning the lottery (which I in no way consider success),
you’re going to need to get your hands dirty. And in truth, the journey is just
as fun as the arrival.
When you look at successful people, they’re brought to your
attention when they are already ‘made’, at the top of their industry and making
it look easy. This goes for athletes as well as entrepreneurs. And the main
problem with this is that it can create a sense of difference between them and
you. It makes them look like they have a special ‘talent’, ‘gift’ or were just
lucky.
It isn’t true. Now let’s ignore the idiotic rise of famous
people who are famous for being famous. Again, I don’t think of these people as
successful. Rich, sure, but lottery winners are also rich. Success is something
you earned, something you created. And for successful people, their journey was
a difficult one which oftentimes seemed impossible.

Let’s take a few quick examples here:
JK Rowling – Living on state benefits, a single mother who
struggled to make a life for her and her child. Was Harry Potter the first book
she ever wrote? Of course not! There were countless books before that. And even
Harry Potter was rejected numerous times by agents. But she kept going, kept
working and believing that she could do it.
Walt Disney – Fired and told he had no creativity or
original ideas.
Henry Ford – Declared Bankrupt

Abraham Lincoln – I’m not even going to begin to list the
hardship this legend suffered throughout his life. Google him and find out for
yourself. It’s a tough read!
Ok so why does this matter to me? To my trading journey? I’m
here to get rich trading Forex and scalping points from the Dow Jones, not read
biographies!
It’s very important. Because if you understand that no one
is successful without hardship and that what got them through was determination
and perseverance, then it can make your journey a lot easier. If you understand
that you aren’t failing because you’re not good enough or because you just
don’t have the ‘talent’, but rather that you’re just climbing the rocky
cliff-face that is your route to success, it will encourage you to take that
next step.
The successful people are the ones who kept going. Who maybe
lost faith once or twice, but continued all the same. Most people face failure
and they accept it. They give up. Or worse than that, they put it away on a
shelf somewhere and tell themselves that they will get back to it ‘when I have
more time’. In reality, they give up but try and make it sound like something
different, something more palatable.

So get yourself mentally prepared. Expect to climb and then
slip. Climb and then slip. Maybe plummet a few hundred feet, breaking bones and
banging against every rock there is on the way down. But lick your wounds, turn
over and start to climb again. And guess what happens when you’re almost there,
when you can see the summit, almost reach it? Another plummet! I don’t know why
this happens, but when you’re almost there, tantalisingly close, you will
suffer a setback once more. Perhaps it’s life’s way of messing with you, of
testing if you’ve really learned what it takes to be successful. Just keep
getting up and climbing. Because what’s the alternative? Roll over and give up?
Everyone fails. But only failures give up.
Have a great trading week!